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Part III: Celebrating Black Men

As you may have noticed, I am once again single in the city! Most people either really love dating or completely dread it; I am somewhat in the middle. Truth be told, I am good at dating. Unfortunately, I can tell you how to get a man, but I damn sure can’t give you advice on how to keep him!  One of my biggest challenges with being single is the negative commentary about being a single Black woman in her 40’s.  The second hardest part about being single is filtering out all the negativity about dating Black men. Wait…. Let me be clear, the negativity is not all coming from white people. This is Black on Black crime! Let’s call it what it is!  Are you an offender?

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Hygge: Kenya Style

In my last post I wrote about the Danish practice of hygge. So that people aren’t left wondering “what is Kenya talking about now,” I decided to go into more detail for y’all! Three years ago I made a career change and it feels like for two of those years my personal life became secondary […]

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